I guess first I
should explain the title. I have had cancer twice before and now I may have it
again. On the seventeenth anniversary of the day I started chemotherapy for
Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, I was having a mammogram for a lump I found in my
breast.
I kind of feel like
a giant cancer cell with legs and arms. But then I think that this cancer thing
is happening to the shell in which my being resides. In other words, my being
is not affected by what happens to my body (the shell). How I handle this is
what determines who I am and who I choose to be.
I remember when I
was told I had Lymphoma. My husband was in the Air Force and we were stationed
in Alaska. We had to fly to Seattle to go to a larger hospital. I was in a
blur, so I pretty much did whatever I was told to do. Have this biopsy, take
this test, see this doctor, attend this class, and talk to these people. I did
all that. Everything that was done to my body helped, but there was one thing
that made me understand that my body isn’t who I am. I walked into a waiting
room shortly after my arrival to Seattle and saw a woman with no hair who was
wearing a Levi, floppy hat with a huge daisy holding up the front of the brim.
She was smiling. I thought at first, What
does she have to smile about? But then, I got it. Her body may be ravaged
by the disease, but her spirit was alive and well. I decided then that I would
also be that kind of patient. It was the best decision I ever made. (I also
found a hat like hers and wore it a lot.)
Eight chemo
treatments, two biopsies, one insertion of a Groshan catheter, countless blood
tests and CT Scans, two blood transfusions, and self injections of a drug to
keep my white blood count up and I became a survivor instead of a patient.
Two years ago, I
was told I had Endometrial Cancer. Age and experience gave me enough wisdom to
say “Just take out everything. I don’t need it anymore.” One CT Scan, one
surgery, one small infection, and I was good to go.
And now this……
I am writing this
in a day to day format, because I don’t want to forget what happened when and
also because my readers (whoever you are) will understand how long it actually
takes to get on the road to treatment and, hopefully, remission.
Peace,
Tracy